confusingnism

Today i ran to my aunts Sonia's house to go and learn about confucianism and the man that lived and breath his own religion. Confucia was a boy when his father died and civil wars were coming and new rulers were ruling. He was a poor boy and only young when he decided to work for the government as a tax collector. Soon he realized the government was selfish and only want them at the top and every one else down to the bottom of a poor pit. He left his job and and started going around preaching and telling people the way the government should work and help every one (this religion is more like a philosophy than a religion). Confucia went around preaching a very good preach and very successful. Confusia also made our lives different, if he didn't make one rule that read "The father of the house was the ruler, and if the father died then the oldest son was the man of the house even if the sister was older." that's why men are the boss of every one in the house. Know that men and women live till theirs 90's, the man is the man of the house only the men are happy.

Do you think that the men should be the man of the house or do you disagree with Confusia?